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Sagar Bonda, Not Man Not Woman…Just Love

Sagar Bonda , Not Man Not Woman...Just Love

Rating: ****

 Let’s face it. Queer cinema in India is in its infancy. With  very  few filmmakers ,barring  a Rituparno Ghosh here  and an Onir there,  even attempting  to get into the sensitive space, director  Rohan Parashuram Kanawade’s  Sagar  Bonda(in Marathi) is the kind of unalloyed cinema which  raises  significant  hope for  the  future of  Indian cinema.  It does what our cinema rarely does: it  lets the characters be, allows them  to breathe  freely  even if  they exist in a stifling social order.

 The point is , the film’s protagonist Anand(Bhushaan Manoj, sensationally natural) gets to choose from his own absence of  choices. The quietly  persuasive  film begins with the death  of Anand’s father. The  frames capture the death  with a steeply subdued tonality of  expression, as though the death is not quite registering the finality it is  meant to.

 Director Kanawade  seems  to master the  silences  that wrap themselves around his protagonist’s head in the  time of mourning.  We  see Anand reliving his old times with his  father even as  he copes with the  constant  stream of inquiries(“About time you married”) and demands(“Don’t go out…sleep on the floor …eat  only one meal only…”)  which  fill up the space that  separates loss from  living.

 Bereavement in  Sagar  Bonda is  not  given much slack.

  Love is. From the  time Anand reunites with his childhood  friend Balya(Suraaj Suman) we know they have  a history. It is  the silences between them. The awkward  word-bridges  built between two people who don’t need to speak to one another to communicate.The  actual  lovemaking takes time. There are stages  of communication  to be  explored before the skin is in.

 Balya, ironically,is the more free-willed more fearless of the duo. Anand is more  cautious  , although he has the most unexpectedly  supportive  mother that rural India  has  ever seen in  the life of   closeted  gay  man. The mother(Jayshree Jagtap)  is not only privy to  her son Anand’s  sexuality, she  has  even processed  it in her  mind and seems to know what Anand should do  to remain true to  himself, better than Anand himself.

 Anand’s  mother  tackles  his  awkwardness before  the rest of his family with  a commanding stoicism. When  relatives  insist  he gets married, Anand’s  mother supports him with a  quiet defiance.

What is  most remarkable  about this pathbreaking  film is that it drains the drama out of the situations without  tampering with  its energy.  It is like watching  a slice of life  in cinema without the accompanying  cinematic conceits.  The characters are  in the grieving mode. But there is too much  of  living going on to  think  about the  dying.

 Sagar Bonda(a cactus fruit  which is hard to find and  almost impossible  to eat without  the thorns getting in the way) revels  in its  mood of silent protest . Anand, the protagonist, who returns to his village to   mourn  for his  father, is   trapped  between  grieving  and desire. But  he never  feels the burden  of his existence: the film  doesn’t have  room for cinematic  affectations.

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