On Priyanka Chopra Marriage Subhash K Jha Unravels Her, “The Complete Package”

I remember Gupta was deeply offended when Priyanka had said no to Musafir.He thought it was a dream role for a relatively new heroine. She thought it was outside her comfort zone.The matter ended there.You can’t make Priyanka Chopra change her mind.

Sameera Reddy finally played the wanton wife who cheats on husband Mahesh Manjrekar when stranger Anil Kapoor(with streaked hair, the stranger couldn’t get any stranger) strays into town.After seeing Musafir I asked Priyanka why she had said no to it.

 “Did you see Mahesh Manjrekar saying, ‘Blouse khol’ to his wife?” Priyanka retorted.She didn’t sound shocked or scandalized, just amused.

We both burst out laughing.

It’s rare to find Priyanka making a politically incorrect statement even as a joke.Earlier on I’d tease her about being the new Rani Mukherjee who always made sure she said the correct things.

 “That’s good, na.Rani is so good at her job and so successful.”

The comfort-zone is a place that Priyanka is very sure about.She won’t say no to a role because it requires body exposure.She carries off the micro-mini-est of dresses with panache because she’s confident that her legs talk. But she isn’t comfortable flaunting cleavage.If  the character says and/or wears things that seem odd she would say no to it.And no amount of money would cajole her to reverse her decision.

Priyanka is the most obdurate actress I’ve come across.She gives you a long rope as a journalist.But if she’s put off she takes a  long time to come around.

“Write what you want as long as it isn’t slanderous or damaging,” she once told me.At that time she was trying to make things work for her  with Shahid Kapoor who had issues regarding her friendship with other men.

An article I wrote on Priyanka and Gerard Butler messed up things even more between Shahid and Priyanka.It took her a long time to get over that one.It messed up her plans for her heart.

Priyanka always has a game-plan which I suspect,is hidden away even from God.

In her early days in the film industry Priyanka was not so sure of which way to go with her career.The hunger to excel was always there.In the mornings before shooting started for her first few films(The Hero with Sunny Deol, Andaaz with Akshay Kumar) she attended Kathak and yoga classes.That’s when she would call from her car.

“You don’t call me.You’ve bigger heroines to talk to,” she would say and laugh throatily.In that laughter was secreted the selfconfidence that she too would make it big in no time at all.

Priyanka had set an actual time-frame for herself during which she was sure she would get to the top.

In those early days her father would often negotiate projects for Priyanka.J.P Dutta was casting for Umrao Jaan.Both Priyanka and her dad were very keen that she get the part. JP quietly signed Aishwarya Rai Bachchan.Not once did I hear Priyanka bitch or crib about  the injustice of it all.And neither did she gloat when Umrao Jaan eventually turned out to be a fiasco.

Come to think of it,many parts that Priyanka has instinctively turned down or the ones that have been snatched away, have turned out to be turnips at the turnstiles.

I once told her she is blessed.

“Not blessed,” she laughed throatily. “I work hard .And I’ve a good judgment of what works for me.”

In  all the time that I’ve known her I’ve never heard Priyanka bitch about any of her competition. Not Aishwarya, Kareena….not even Katrina. It’s always others who have felt threatened by Priyanka.

“I think women and men see something predatory about me,” she had languidly meowed to me.Before I could react she had burst out laughing.

The thing about Priyanka is,she is far more street-smart and far stronger than all her competitors.Kareena thinks with her heart.Priyanka doesn’t let her heart dictate her decisions.I’ve seen her go through the best and the worst of times. She remains firm on her ground,no matter how slippery it gets.

Beyond doubt  her worst time so far was when her father fell ill.On the day after she found out his condition,she was on the sets of Bluff Master shooting normally. No one had a clue about the turmoil she was going through.

In the evening when her co-star Abhishek Bachchan was on the phone with me I mentioned Priyanka’s pain to him. That was the first he heard of it.

“Why should I burden those around me with my pain?” she asked me.“I’m sure they’ve their own worries.I’ve mine to deal with.I wouldn’t like it if they started unburdening their problems on me.”

Today Priyanka has shaped into one of those actresses who are good at her job very successful and very very dependable.When a director signs her he signs an all-rounder…with some delectable curves thrown in.Ask any filmmaker.He’ll tell you why he wants Priyanka for his film,regardless of  the nature of the part.

The other day I was speaking to a director who was going through the list of actresses for his next film. “I wanted Kareena for the part.But she has changed so much in appearance.The Kareena in Kambakht Ishq is not the same girl  I loved in Refugee and Jab We met.She has…changed.As for the others,they are flush with good and bad points.But none qualifies as a complete package like Priyanka.Today she’s in a position to play any character.She loves challenges.And she’s physically and emotionally equipped to handle them.”

It hasn’t been easy getting here.When Priyanka and Lara Dutt came into the film industry simultaneously it was Lara who was seen as the potential star.Priyanka raced ahead, not just because of her talent but impeccable PR.She has the ability to be naturally charming to people around her.Being Ms Congeniality is not a role for her.It’s part of her,just like being a good sister,a good daughter and a good girlfriend.

She doesn’t talk about her relationships, and there’s a reason for it.Aeons ago before she became a star she was seeing AseemMerchant. She moved on.People continued to refer to Aseem as ‘PC’s boyfriend’ .Priyanka didn’t want Harman Baweja to go through the same humiliation.

Priyanka is the female Shah Rukh Khan, and not only because she doesn’t get along with Salman Khan. Like SRK,PC genuinely believes she is in competition only with herself.Each time signs on to endorse a brand she checks to see herself in the mirror,and not the zeroes on the cheque.With success she has transformed physically.Her legs are longer.Her cheekbones are sharper.Her nose is more aquiline and her teeth whiter.

But inside her she remains the same.While a Ranveer Singh or for that matter Ranbir Kapoor  and Kangna Ranaut changed with success,Priyanka remains the same.

It hasn’t been easy getting here.I don’t know whether she knows this(and I’ve never told her). But one of her co-stars secretly referred to her as ‘Dark Side Of The Moon’.He would  often make fun of how she looked without makeup.

Yup,things have changed.With or without makeup,Priyanka lights up the screen the way Shabana Azmi did 25 years ago.After seeing her in Saat Khoon Maaf  Gulzar had said, “She looks beautiful even when she grows old  in the film.”

In  real life too Priyanka would be comfortable with wrinkles and grey hair.She doesn’t shy away from peeping into the dark side of the moon. She isn’t fearful of  ugliness.Not as an actor. Not as an individual.She has yet to learn how to bitch about her co-stars.But what the heck!No one is perfect.

Not even Priyanka Chopra.

In spite of her huge star power that extends all the way fromBandra to Beverly Hills, Chopra has in some way or another been blacklisted by …take a deep breath…AkshayKumar, Salman Khan, Aamir Khan , Ranbir Kapoor and Shah Rukh Khan. The only top notch heroes who are happy being paired with  Chopra are Hrithik Roshan and Ranveer Singh.

This is a good time for Priyanka to consider the future course of  her career. Given the complete dominance of the make superstars in Bollywood can she survive without patriarchal patronage?

 It’s a question with no simple answer. On one hand the female superstar may be congratulated for ploughing her own field , mining a career that tries  to be independent of male support. On the other hand, how far can a leading lady go unless she has the superstars in her side?

 Mumtaz and Sharmila Tagore, two of the biggest female superstars of the 1970s benefited immensely from their association with the baap of all superstars Rajesh Khanna.

Another superstar of that era Jaya Bhaduri did a host of good films with smaller co-stars like Anil Dhawan andVijay Arora. But it was her pairing with Amitabh Bachchan which placed her at the centre of the movement towards female superstardom. Zeenat Aman piggybacked her stardom on Dev Anand’s patronage. And HemaMalini the biggest female superstar of her era, had every male superstar being cast opposite her.

The rules haven’t changed since then. Deepika Padukone is equally at home working with Shah Rukh Khan ,Ranbir Kapoor and Ranveer Singh. After Katrina  Kaif’s fall-out with Ranbir Kapoor she is looking to work with her ex-boyfriend and mentor Salman Khan again.

Given the scarcity of co-stars Priyanka has made her move into Hollywood at the right time.

Akshay Kumar nahin,Dwayne Johnson hi sahi. The Sky Is  Pink and  the mood is crimson asPriyanka  plunges into matrimony.

Wishing you  a timeless togetherness.  You deserve  it. You  do us  proud.